male security

Society, women specifically do not understand for the most part, male security. What I mean is that women do not understand men, for the most part. Also men do not understand women for the most part. Women do not understand the male heart. Don't believe me? Read the book Wild At Heart. I have found that in the midst of all this misunderstanding. People and society don't show compassion or understanding of the opposite sex. For example I will state a situation which can make what I am saying more understandable. And remember that I am not trying to put down men, or women. This may just be geared more towards males. Or towards women just on another level. It is a two-sided situation or part of this generation and society. Men have been tamed over the last many years. They have been tamed and brought down by what societies, or women or other men or moms have expected. These things may not have been done intentionally but they have and are continuing to occur. For example as I was saying before these things can happen in rude and horrible situations as well as situations which don't actually seem bad at all. So one way of looking at it is when a boy is playing in the mud and his mother yells at him for getting dirty. Does this seem bad at all or does it seem like motherly love? Well that is something that growing men and boys do. They do crazy things which women at least most of them or society doesn’t get. But does it matter if people don't get it? Should they be taught and get a lesson on the male security and the ways men work. Men should do the same for women I must say. So ladies, and men try to be understanding of one another. Don't be turned into what society wants you to be. Another example, which is a lot harsher and may seem utterly and completely different. Calling a straight man homosexual. Why would you do that? I have no idea, no idea; I mean who in their right mind would say such a thing. Ladies I am not saying most of you do this. But please understand that that is a very sensitive subject. That is a horrible thing to say to a man. Not just cause of his security. But what do you think that would do to him? I mean men and women have been brought down to a low level. We have diminished ourselves as human beings. Another way of looking at it is: women have to look a certain way to be beautiful. I must say that this is the biggest load of junk I have ever heard. Or all men being pigs. What makes a man a man? What makes women women? Who decides this? Society? I do not think so, they seem to but it is completely wrong. Don't find your identity in society or what they say you should be or how you should act. You will not find your security in others or in society; they will only let you down. And again, there are many wonderful and amazing men and women out there. Think before you judge, think before you say what the heck are you doing stupid....especially when it has to do with something you don't understand. Something that belongs to a females or males security and identity. If you drown their identity in lies and horror, their security will diminish. Think of others; think of the things you don't get. Think of their security and identity. Don't let the opposite sex down by grudge or stupidity. If you don't understand it, and you think it’s a guy thing and that it is stupid don't even open your mouth. Listen to me when I say this, don't say or imply that men or women are stupid by what they do, concerning what men and women do as a man or women. Like shopping, I mean I don't understand it not at all. But men don't make them look stupid because of it. Women don't make men look stupid because they like cars or football and they go nuts when Jeff Gordon wins the race or the Maple Leafs win the cup. It is about testosterone and estrogen, this is obviously not all, and it is how men and women have been built by God. It's like that commercial and many others, there are so many stories....when the man finishes building his mustang, and the wife says that only took you three years....I mean of course it might be alright depending on how the lady says it or means it. But the idea is the same, don't criticize or belittle the ways of the female and male gender. We are made differently, respect that.